I'm sorry gentle readers for those of you who follow and are concerned about what is going over here. I went to the Dr. I don't have to have the lap done. Thankfully. However I have bigger fish to fry. *B* is severely sick with a ruptured ear drum on the right side and bulging membranes on the other side ready to rupture from an ear infection. I'll write more when he's better. Right now it's off to take care of my baby.