tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9049244864955003489.post1249142623581578577..comments2023-05-10T05:50:08.866-04:00Comments on Baby Dreams: Drama, Drama, DRAMACatrisha Thttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13370942489072667936noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9049244864955003489.post-56561353721541300372010-06-13T19:55:34.430-04:002010-06-13T19:55:34.430-04:00I agree, I know it's a hard position to be in ...I agree, I know it's a hard position to be in but "H's" welfare and well being are the most important factors. Sometimes we have to do hard no fun things to protect innocent chldren. Poor little baby. Breaks my heart. I would tell the truth and let the Judge be the bad guy.Krisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00014119520544602617noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9049244864955003489.post-44748786703999739122010-05-26T19:25:42.791-04:002010-05-26T19:25:42.791-04:00I am so sorry that this is all on your lap. I woul...I am so sorry that this is all on your lap. I would honestly tell the truth. I know it's a very hard situation being your husband's sister and he thinks the total opposite. <br />Poor H is so innocent and should be so loved and well taken care of.mylittlemonkeysnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9049244864955003489.post-14809971745299733152010-05-26T13:58:32.654-04:002010-05-26T13:58:32.654-04:00What a terrible position you are in!! Personally ...What a terrible position you are in!! Personally I'm with you. If you don't tell the truth, she gets unsupervised visits and then something horrible happens which could even include his death how would you or your hubby feel then. I say this as someone who worked for over a year at a place where we did parenting classes for people whose children where in the system. In that year, four child died from abuse/neglect/stupid mistakes and several more were injured. So I've learned it is always better to err on the side of the child. Honesty keeps them safe. None of those parents thought their children would die. Personally I would be honest on this one but make it very clear that I will not be apart of this situation any longer. Hubby wants to than fine I will have a weekend at a nice hotel with a good book and clear conscious while he participates in this farce. Sorry. My job left me a little scarred on this issue. My heart goes out to you in this tough time. <br />ICLWjunebughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16597959014121851131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9049244864955003489.post-68005731947538964562010-05-25T14:56:07.670-04:002010-05-25T14:56:07.670-04:00Did the judge even ask you guys if that was ok wit...Did the judge even ask you guys if that was ok with you guys to supervise H's visits? Personally I would write it how it happened! She obviously can not take care of her child and what really happened IS in the best interest of H! Good luck!Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15245295782613878446noreply@blogger.com